I’ve recently spoken to a client and she brought up an interesting question. As a psychic, I’ve never really thought about the ‘how’ of what I do or how psychic connections actually happen. Her question was this: “How are you able to connect to someone other than myself, and how accurate is it?” This made me think and this blog post will focus specifically on answering her question.
How Do Psychics Connect?
There are as many different ways to connect as there are psychic readers or advisors out there. I believe that as a psychic or intuitive, someone is able to feel, sense, hear, see, or know things that others cannot, simply because a psychic is more sensitive and is able to pick up bit of information energetically or through the clair senses.
It’s been said that psychics connect to an energetic grid that connects all individuals together, so if you’d like, it’s a little like going onto an energetic version of the Internet and we’re all on it. What I use to start a psychic connection, is most often a person’s name, but that is just my personal preference, other readers may ask for a date of birth or an item of clothing or jewelry etc.
Some psychics, including myself, may use tools to connect. This is particularly true in situations where time is of the essence or where the client may be paying per minute. So it means that we’re able to get a faster connection and a wider view of the situation in far less time using some of the symbols, archetypes, and energies represented by Tarot cards, Runes, Oracle cards, or Angel cards.
Not all psychics connect in exactly the same way, so I can only speak for myself when I say this: I believe psychic connections can happen in a number of ways, but I use both the clair senses and Tarot to do what I do.
How is a Psychic Able to Connect to a Third Party?
This is an interesting question because it’s fairly easy to connect to the person you’re speaking to as you’re able to hear their voice and you’re speaking to them in real time during a reading. The client’s partner, ex, or employer is a different story though because the connection happens remotely.
The best or easiest way for me to explain this is to say that the connection starts with the person I’m speaking to. In other words I’ll connect with the client and then from there I connect to her partner, ex, employer, etc through her.
The tools I work with also help in that regard because the spreads I use are laid out in a way that shows me not only the client’s side of things but also that of the other party he or she may be asking about.
How Accurate is the Connection?
This is a question I cannot really give a definite answer to, and while it may seem like I’m evading the question, it’s really just because there isn’t a fixed percentage. I’m always doubtful when I see readers use phrases like “99% accurate” etc, because unless someone has been tested extensively over a prolonged period of time there’s really no way to get a definite average.
Each connection is different just as each reading and each client is different. I’ve found that individual energies also affect a reading, and even my own or the client’s mindset can affect the connection. So for some, a particular reader may connect brilliantly, while for others he or she leaves much to be desired.
Trust is important when it comes to connecting to one another and if a client is anxious, doubtful, angry, scared, or guarded, it makes it harder to connect to them properly. I tend to receive emotions first so if you have to work past intense feelings from the client first it makes the connection process harder and may also influence the reading. If you’re interested in gauging the accuracy of a connection, one of the best ways to do so is to take notes and to see whether you’re able to verify some of what your reader has shared.